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I do....Wait....No I Don't.....

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I, (Bride/Groom), take you (Groom/Bride), to be my (wife/husband), to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part..... Or until I decide I don't want to be married anymore....

I believe in marriage and what it stands for. I believe you should try to work out the issues you have between your husband or wife. But I also believe that if one partner is not willing to work then you should move on.

I have several friends that have either had to make the choice to end their marriages or had the choice made for them. Two of these friends had the same issue, their husbands were workaholics and neither husband was willing to work on their relationships. But one made the decision and the other had it made for her. Neither situation was easy I am sure.

She is about to be divorced in a few weeks...I am really sad about this. Yes I know it doesn't hav…

Just the way you are.....

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Yesterday was my Sorority sister Bettiann's wedding. It was a lovely day and an even better evening. She was gorgeous and everything was breath taking.... and as I watched her and her new husband she looked so happy and like it was just them in the world, no one else around. It started me thinking about my wedding day....

That day I was the happiest I think I had ever been.. I had married my soul mate and the day went off with only minor issues... I have often thought about what I could have done different or compared it to others, only to make myself feel sad that it was not as beautiful or whatever. I have this tendency to let what other people do or think shape who I am or think I should be.

Every time I looked at them dancing I couldn't help myself from wishing I could have my day all over again. I want to be that happy again. But I have alot of working on my self before I can be that happy again. So I have decided for the millionth time to get off my ass and start worki…